If you’re like me, saying goodbye at the end of a big event can be a bit overwhelming. But luckily, we have a tradition in our Southern wedding culture that’s perfect for adding a memorable finale to your special day – the “grand exit.” Even if you’re not in the South, feel free to incorporate this into your wedding timeline! While it might be a bit sad to think about the best day of your life coming to an end, I’m here to ensure that you savor every moment and conclude the night with a bang. This way, when you look back at your wedding photos, all those fond memories will come flooding in.
I like to think of a wedding day as a story, with the exit as the “and they lived happily ever after. The End” moment. This is your last chance to get your guests involved in the excitement and leave with a rush of adrenaline as you embark on your married life. There are countless ways to make this moment special, from giving your guests sparklers, bubbles, streamers, confetti, rose petals, glow sticks, ribbons, and more, to departing in style in anything from an UberX to a horse and carriage. The options are endless, but be sure to coordinate your ideas with your wedding venue to ensure they’re allowed.
Here are some pro tips to make your wedding exit unforgettable:
1. Celebrate the Last Song:
There’s nothing like the energy in the room when everyone’s on the dance floor singing along to the last song. Encourage all your guests to join you for this moment of togetherness.
2. Savor a Last Dance:
Instead of waiting for your guests to line up and get ready for your exit, consider sharing a private last dance with your partner. It’s a cherished moment for both of you to reflect on your day before bidding farewell.
3.Strategic Guest Placement:
You may not have time to say goodbye to every guest, so ensure that your family gets a warm farewell either before they line up or next to your getaway vehicle. Also, place your bridal party strategically to capture their expressions.
4.Enjoy the Moment:
A send-off can be quick, but it’s worth savoring. Stop for a few poses in the middle of the exit line, enjoy the cheers, and let your photographer capture this joyful moment.
5. Consider staging a mock exit
If you think your guests might not cooperate for a proper send-off due to an open bar or other factors, think about staging a mock exit earlier in the night. This way, you’ll ensure great guest participation and save money as your photographers and videographers can leave while you continue dancing the night away.
Remember, your wedding exit is the “happily ever after” ending to your love story. Make it memorable, fun, and uniquely yours! It’s the grand finale of your wedding day, so go out with a bang and create lasting memories!
